Best-selling author, Toke Makinwa, has finally spoken up on the drama surrounding the broken marriage of Tonto Dikeh.
Though the media personality did not state that she was referring to the revelation of the actress, her point seems targeted at the drama.
Toke Makinwa took to her Instagram account and wrote:
“We are all tested differently, broken differently, our scars fade differently and we heal different.”
“Everyone should be allowed to grieve how they want, when they want and however long they want to. Stop giving expiry dates to the pain you did not endure. If you cannot be kind, say nothing. It’s ok to be quiet, try it sometime, you won’t die.”
“You don’t have to understand everyone’s journey or life’s choices but it’s your duty to respect it. Life visits us all at the end of the day and while you play judge let’s hope when it’s your turn, you remain standing to handle it half as strong or as perfect as you try to claim be. #fridayinspiration #Judgenot#Bekind”
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You see i think alot of you are missing the point here, NO ONE I MEAN ABSOLUTELY NO ONE CAN MAKE ME STOP SPEAKING MY TRUTH!! I already said it i am totally shameless especially when i am fighting for my life!! So you can send in all the comic skits i will help repost!!Make we all laugh together! NoOne married with me,No one was beaten with me,No one enjoyed with me etc SO I MEAN NO ONE WILL EVER DICTATE TO ME HOW TO ACT OUT OR WHAT FORM I CHOOSE VENT MY ANGER!! #Facts is if i hear PIM again from this man on any interview again, I will be up again doing exactly this same thing BUT this time even worse using more documented proofs!! I DONT LOOK FOR TROUBLE BUT I AM THE LAST TO EVER LEAVE IT.. #PSA:- AM I HURT? FUCK YES! (dont use me then come out to the world and lie on me,Use me and keep walking(NEVER PUBLICLY FOUGHT AN EX B4) DO I WANT HIM BACK? ???Even him knows the answer, Only maybe to KILL him(which i will never DO cause my baby gonno Holdup on me + Im better than Murder).. DO I WANT CHILD SUPPORT? ??HELL NO, with my son im too selfish!! If He is able to afford child support constantly he will have the right to hold my child as long as he cant afford that(which is the case here) he has no right to come close to my child!! And thats exacyly what i want) SO MY PEOPLE I AINT FINNA STOP UNTIL MY HEART SAYS STOP.. If i love and respect you pls dont call my phone on this subject you will be totally DISRESPECTED! You can how ever call to PRAY!! THANKS AND HAVE AN AMAZING WEEKEND