Popular Nigerian singer, Simi, has reacted to the sermon given by pastor of the David Christian Centre, Kingsley Okonkwo , where he called on ladies to stay away from s3x.
In his statement he claimed that the reason why men are not anxious to get married is because they are satisfying their sexual urge outside marriage.
He stated that this is because young ladies are allowing themselves to be used.
“women need to understand that men are not emotionally developed as they are, women know what they want from childhood. The average teenage girl has dreams of how her wedding will be. Men as teenager is just playing ball, he has no dreams of settling down.”
“He wants s3x, men want s3x not relationship. God put so much sexual passion in men, expecting that women will obey him by doing access denied, so that if he wants so much s3x he should marry. So, he will give you what you want, you will give him what he wants.”
“That was how God planned it, but many women have been sabotaging themselves. So you have been giving it out to people that didn’t put a ring on it.”
“This is why we have so many single people because a lot of guys are sexually satisfied. Men enjoy s3x with more people, than with one person. So, you are messing up and sabotaging yourself by giving out free s3x. If you do national lock up, these men will marry.”
Simi in her reaction wrote:
“@kingsleypst sir you know ur message (and not this one) has put responsibility on women, if not completely, then mosttly. just be careful pls. As a pastor, a lot of people take ur word for it, even tho as Christians we all have access to God and His words the same. But you have this responsibilty, pls be careful with it.”
“Even the comment beneath mine saying he understands from ur comment that women should leave a life free of sexual sin and if a man wants her enuf, he’ll commit to her”.
“Sigh. Marriage is not a reward for good behaviour. Seee, i’m even tired. I’ve seen some of ur sermons. I usually like how candid and down to earth you are but this offends me. And i’ve gotten it off my chest. Peace.”