Author: Terfa Naswem

Terfa Naswem is a Relationship, Marriage and Family Counselor based in Vandeikya, Benue State, Nigeria. His a very simple person who is very sociable and generous and very hardworking.

Any relationship or marriage that is built on deceit will not stand the test of time. There are so many relationships and marriages today that are time bombs waiting to explode when the truth that has been buried surfaces. Many people have built their relationships and marriages on lies. They have sown lies and are looking forward to reaping happiness and honesty. Has anyone sown yam and reap cassava? This is the kind of situation those who have built their relationships on deceit are in. Before you establish any love relationship, be sincere to your would-be partner. Tell him or…

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For relationship and marriage to succeed, partners must effectively communicate their feelings and thoughts: they should never work under assumption. One of the factors that affect relationship and marriage is poor communication. Verbal and non-verbal communication are the basic types of communication that take place in a relationship and marriage. Verbal communication requires the partners to express their feelings and thoughts by talking to each other while non-verbal communication requires the use of signs, facial or body expressions to communicate feelings. For partners to understand each other, they must effectively communicate their feelings and thoughts to each other using all…

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